The Most Audacious Breakup EVER!!
A woman sat at a dinner table in the company of her best friend. Beat face. Designer dress. She was more put together than a secret international Beyonce launch.
Girlfriend was enjoying the moment but was not fully present, because a real conversation was going on in her head that drowned out the chatter from the table talk.
“I can stick around”, she thought. “We’ve rocked it out for so long. Are you sure you really want to try something brand new––unfamiliar even?”
She knew in her bones that It was time to move on, but she’d never been taught how to radically change. Life was comfortable. The routine was so established she barely needed to observe time on the Shinola watch that maxed out her credit card.
She hears, “Why are you trying to shake things up? We’re so comfortable; We’re on a good vibration!”
I’m being pulled in a different direction that I can’t fully explain, but I sense that if I don’t move with this wave that I will be overtaken by it.
“Move?,” her fears talk back. “That requires energy; It’s called Change, duh. But things are fine the way they are. Stay with me. Let me remind you of how good it feels to be in our zone.”
Feeling frustrated that fear appears to be in control, she forgets where she is and yells out with a heart full of passion “It’s over! I’m not going back. I choose to Level up!”
Her best friend stops mid-sentence and says, “What are you talking about? LOL! Of course, you’re leveling up! Are you even listening to me?”
They both pause and stare intensely at one another, checking lashes and blotting shiny t-zones, before bursting into laughter.
See, a real thing happened inside Girlfriend’s head. She decided that in a crowded restaurant, at a table with the company, her future was the only thing that mattered. She was going to be at the table of her future and not on the menu.
If you’ve ever experienced the valley of decision, you can relate to Girlfriend.
Life is always moving around you, intensifying as you prepare to move on, interrupt, and level up.
Your old nature will try it’s best to contend with your will to transform, but it can only stay the same. And that’s the last thing we want to do.
When you’re no longer captivated with the idea of who you are or where you’ve been as if your life is to be a collection of plateaus, you’ll walk differently––confidently; because you have what it takes to bounce back and propel forward. The hard seasons taught you this and they’re worth remembering.
Not completely sure how you will arrive at your vision? Relax.
No one has it all figured out. Success is the result of taking one positive and deliberate step at a time. Your job is to envision where you’re headed and work as if you’re always one step away from being there with 100% tenacity.
The very first step is to cut that cord.
There must be a breakup; not just any breakup, but the most Audacious Breakup EVER!!
It’s the breakup of your connection to the untrainable champion within yourself. The version of you that chooses comfort over challenge.
You’ll find a new love in growth, one based on a new idea of who you can become and what you can achieve.
You’re probably asking, “How will I know if I’m ready?”
I asked myself the same question many times before. In fact, I’ve been through a few breakups with versions of myself that stopped serving the vision I carried for my life and legacy.
I had to choose. So will you.
Ask yourself:
Are you satisfied with who you are and where you are in life when you’re seen by many and alone with yourself?
Are there things that you can be doing right now that would shift your life in the direction which you truly want to be?
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